Well, Mom and I have been MIA for a while.... We got some really bad news last week. Mom's only brother was diagnosed with cancer. As it turns out it is the really aggressive Non-Small Cell kind. And he has already had Emphysema for a while now. So the family decided to go visit him right away and went to North Carolina this past weekend. Mom and Dad drove down from Indianapolis and picked brother and I up from the airport on the way.
Turns out that when I get stressed out I REALLY need something to do. The first couple of days that I found out I spent digging in the garden. Which is a great way to exhaust yourself but is also quite painful. Then I suddenly decided that my Uncle Gary needed a quilt. He was still in the hospital at that time and I thought I would give him something cheerful and comforting all at the same time. So for three or four days last week, I spent all hours getting my scrap quilt put together. My great friend Karen managed to quilt it for me on her long-arm with no time and no notice. (Bless her!) Mom kept telling me I didn't need to do it (she knew I was staying up all night!) but I was determined. I picked up the quilt from Karen on Thursday after work and bound it with a zigzag stitch that night. So it was packed for my flight Friday morning.
Saturday we went to visit, but I still had a couple of little things to finish on the quilt so it stayed behind. Oh, and he was home by now- they have a hospital bed set up in the middle of the living room. The couches are on either side of the bed so it is set up in a circle for everyone to talk. Due to his radiation treatments, the house temp was about 65 degrees. Brrr. Due to the meds he was on, he would wake every hour or two all night so everyone was very tired when we got there. This had been going on for a couple of days, I guess.
Mom and her brother are Navy brats so there was a lot of talk about all the places that they had lived when they were young. Just for the record, you can learn a lot sitting around listening to the "adults" talk about the "good old days". First of all, you have to understand that this side of the family is full of pranksters and "tall tales" are a completely common event. You have to be skeptical when any of the relatives start telling stories- 9 times out of 10 they are trying to hook you into some far-fetched tale. So one of the stories I heard this weekend was that Mom's grandfather, Garrett Cruzan, apparently held the record for the biggest bass fish from Lake Jacksonville, IL for many years.... it was a family joke for a long, long time. If I told you that this fish was related to the frog in Mark Twain's "The Notorious Jumping Frog of Calaveras County" would you get the joke? The fish was loaded down with buckshot....
So Sunday we went back and the conversation started up again. Mom started talking about all sorts of stuff and got around to mentioning quilting and the blogs. (Nice segue way, Mom!) So at a lull in the conversation, I pulled out my quilt and gave it to him. I told him that it was made up of all scraps of my other quilts and told him about some of the different pieces that were in it. He had been laying on the bed with no covers, but as soon as he got that quilt he pulled it right up under his chin. I think he was so overwhelmed by the gift he could hardly tell me thank you enough. But for the rest of our visit he was completely wrapped up in that quilt...
So I got my scrap quilt done a little earlier than planned. I'm still sad about the circumstances, but it also makes me feel good that I was able to give him a little comfort and let him know how much I love him.
